Aubri Lancaster, CSE - Sexuality Educator

Aubri Lancaster, CSE - Sexuality Educator AASECT Certified Sexuality Educator
Focus in As*xuality and Aromanticism I offer group classes as well as one on one consultations for specific cases.

As a Greyromantic As*xual Sexuality Educator I offer training for Educators, Counselors, and Therapists to be able to serve their As*xual and Aromantic clients with a multifaceted understanding of their needs and challenges.

Shabbat Shalomㅤ[Image of an Ace flag in Black, grey, white, purple on a flag pole next to a rainbow flag on another flag...
06/12/2026

Shabbat Shalom

[Image of an Ace flag in Black, grey, white, purple on a flag pole next to a rainbow flag on another flag pole. The sky is full of clouds with orange sunset light on them. Behind the graphic is an array of rainbow beams.]

As*xual People have been part of Pride for 50+ Years!ㅤ[A black and white photo of a street scene with two people smiling...
06/11/2026

As*xual People have been part of Pride for 50+ Years!

[A black and white photo of a street scene with two people smiling and walking towards the camera in the middle of the street with other people walking in the street around them. The two people are holding a sign that reads "Gay, Straight, Bis*xual, As*xual: All God's children need love."

The photo is credited: "Photo by Crawford Barton at the 1973 Gay Freedom Day Parade in San Francisco, CA."]

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“Being a minority in this world is hard, but being a minority that no one knows about is something else entirely. If as*...
06/09/2026

“Being a minority in this world is hard, but being a minority that no one knows about is something else entirely. If as*xuality is barely known, aromanticism might as well be a myth. It’s not a myth, but very few people know about it, and that can make aromantic people feel small.”
~Samantha Rendle
Hopeless Aromantic: An Affirmative Guide to Aromanticism

Shabbat Shalom!ㅤ[Image shows a sunset with the words Shabbat Shalom! across the top and along the bottom is an illustrat...
06/05/2026

Shabbat Shalom!

[Image shows a sunset with the words Shabbat Shalom! across the top and along the bottom is an illustrated parade of diverse people. A couple of them are holding rainbow flags, one his holding an As*xual flag in black, grey, white, and purple, and another is holding an Aromantic flag in Dark Green, Light Green, White, Grey, Black.]

LAST CALL!!ㅤDemystifying Limerence & Romantic Love: Extended Edition (6 AASECT CEs)ㅤJune - Mon June 8th & Thurs June 11t...
06/04/2026

LAST CALL!!

Demystifying Limerence & Romantic Love: Extended Edition (6 AASECT CEs)

June - Mon June 8th & Thurs June 11th 11am-2:15pm (2pm-5:15pm ET)
Nov - INTENSIVE - Sunday Nov 15th - 10am-5pm PT (1pm-8pm ET)

Explore the characteristics, stages, and mechanics of Romantic Love through Limerence Theory and an Aromantic Lens.

with Aubri Lancaster (Bri/she) BA², CSE
AASECT Certified Sexuality Educator
ANTE UP! Certified
Link in Bio or go to AceSexEducation.com for Registrations
Live 6-hour synchronous interactive small group Zoom training.

This program meets the requirements of the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT) and is approved for 6 CE credits. These CE credits may be applied toward AASECT certification and renewal of certification.

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06/03/2026

Sorry for the flood of posts. I had a problem with Meta where my Instagram account suddenly started sharing to my Personal page rather than this one, but I finally got it fixed!

Orientations Within a Gendered FrameworkㅤHetero – Attracted to a different gender(Shown as a circular diagram with an ar...
06/03/2026

Orientations Within a Gendered Framework

Hetero – Attracted to a different gender
(Shown as a circular diagram with an arrow extending from a dot on one side to a point on the far other side of the circle)

Le***an/Gay – Attracted to a same or similar gender
(Arrow points from a dot to a nearby point on the same side of the circle)

Bi – Attracted to two or more genders
(Multiple arrows extend from a single dot toward various points across the circle)

Pan – Attracted to others regardless of gender
(Dashed arrows curve and swirl from one dot to multiple points around the circle)

Ace/Aro – Little to no directional s*xual/romantic attraction
(A dot appears in the circle without any arrows)

Hetero, Le***an, Gay, Bi, and Pan can describe attraction broadly or be applied to specific types of attraction such as s*xual, romantic, sensual, or aesthetic.

As*xual (Ace) and Aromantic (Aro) may be used as standalone identities or combined with gendered terms to differentiate the directionality of various types of attraction.

Note that the circles represent the Gender Spectrum without any genders specifically labeled so as to make space for the expansive ways people relate to gender including fluid, fluctuating, nonbinary, and agender experiences as well as the nuances of identity, expression, presentation, s*x, and cultural context. These visuals are still lacking in visual representations of frequency, intensity, or conditionality.

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They're my Ride-or-DieA survey exploring non-traditional committed relationshipsㅤTell us about your long-term non-romant...
06/03/2026

They're my Ride-or-Die
A survey exploring non-traditional committed relationships

Tell us about your long-term non-romantic partnerships!

https://bit.ly/4w09CBE
or
https://vist.ly/55scb

My colleague and her research partner want to learn more about non-traditional relationships that fall outside of society’s labels… long-term, committed, but not necessarily romantic or s*xually intimate. They’re curious about how these deep, “ride or die” commitments influence loneliness, social support, and belonging. Does this sound like you & Your Person? If so, go to the link to share some of your wisdom with them.

This is NOT an academic endeavor, but it may result in some cool fact sheets for folks in these relationships and the clinicians who work with them. 🫶🏻

Libido ≠ DesireLibido is the itch...Desire is the urge to scratch it.ㅤ[Graphic of a bear scratching its back against a t...
06/03/2026

Libido ≠ Desire
Libido is the itch...
Desire is the urge to scratch it.

[Graphic of a bear scratching its back against a tree]

While these two experiences often happen in tandem, conflating the two can miss
important possibilities.

Recognizing the difference helps us make space for experiences like arousal without attraction, desire that isn’t interpersonal, or s*xual interest that may not have a physical component.

Happy Pride Month! Just a little reminder:ㅤOrientation influences Behavior but Behavior does NOT define Orientation.ㅤ[Il...
06/03/2026

Happy Pride Month! Just a little reminder:

Orientation influences Behavior but Behavior does NOT define Orientation.

[Illustration of a person with rainbow hair looking at the words "Orientation influences Behavior but Behavior does NOT define Orientation."]

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Simi Valley, CA
93063

Opening Hours

Monday 11am - 5pm
Tuesday 11am - 5pm
Wednesday 11am - 5pm
Thursday 11am - 5pm
Friday 11am - 5pm

Telephone

(909) 636-4601

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