05/29/2026
What I find interesting is watching people speak about bullying, exclusion, false narratives, and the damage they cause while completely ignoring the fact that many of those behaviors are still happening.
The threats happened.
The attacks happened.
The lies happened.
And when proof was shown, screenshots were shared, and full context was provided, many people chose to ignore it because it didn’t fit the narrative they wanted to believe.
But let’s stop pretending this is all in the past.
The group chats are still happening.
The private conversations are still happening.
The gossip is still happening.
The false narratives are still happening.
The name-calling is still happening.
The smear campaigns are still happening.
The exclusion is still happening.
The attempts to influence friendships are still happening.
The attempts to discourage people from participating with certain individuals are still happening.
That is the reality.
For months I have stood on the truth. I have shown receipts, screenshots, timelines, and context. Not to create division. Not to make anyone choose sides. Not to attack anyone.
I have done it because people deserve the full story.
There is a difference between exposing behavior and engaging in behavior.
There is a difference between showing evidence and creating a narrative.
There is a difference between defending yourself and spending months trying to destroy someone else’s reputation.
What continues to frustrate me is watching people publicly talk about peace while privately participating in the very things they claim to be against.
You cannot condemn gossip while engaging in gossip.
You cannot condemn exclusion while excluding people.
You cannot condemn smear campaigns while participating in them.
You cannot condemn false narratives while continuing to push them.
And let’s be honest about something else.
This hasn’t stayed confined to Facebook.
When one platform wasn’t enough, some people carried it over to TikTok.
The same narratives, the same comments, the same attempts to influence how others see me have followed across platforms.
People have commented on public posts warning others about me, telling them they’re making a mistake by being friends with me, questioning their judgment for associating with me, and attempting to plant seeds of doubt before people have even had the opportunity to form their own opinions.
Think about that for a moment.
Grown adults are actively inserting themselves into other people’s friendships and relationships, attempting to influence who someone should or should not talk to, support, collaborate with, or be friends with.
That isn’t concern.
That isn’t protection.
That isn’t looking out for anyone.
That’s control.
That’s manipulation.
And it’s exactly the kind of behavior I’ve been talking about for months.
People are free to like me.
People are free not to like me.
But actively seeking out opportunities to discourage others from associating with me, whether on Facebook, TikTok, or anywhere else, only proves the point I’ve been making all along.
If the goal was truly peace, healing, and moving forward, people would stop carrying these narratives from platform to platform and from person to person.
Instead, some continue to keep them alive while pretending they have nothing to do with it.
At the end of the day, people are entitled to believe whatever they want.
People are entitled to form their own opinions.
People are entitled to decide for themselves who they trust, who they support, and who they choose to be friends with.
I’ve never asked anyone to blindly take my side.
What I have done is provide screenshots, receipts, timelines, conversations, and context so people can see the full picture for themselves.
The truth has been put out there.
The evidence has been put out there.
The context has been put out there.
What people choose to do with that information is entirely up to them.
But there comes a point where people can no longer claim they haven’t seen it, haven’t heard it, or don’t know it exists.
Some may choose to ignore it.
Some may choose to dismiss it.
Some may continue believing narratives that have already been disproven.
That is their choice.
But it doesn’t change the facts.
It doesn’t change the screenshots.
It doesn’t change the receipts.
And it certainly doesn’t change the truth.
The truth remains the truth whether people accept it or not.
And you certainly cannot continue these behaviors behind the scenes and then act shocked when people bring receipts.
For a long time I stayed quiet because the mental toll was real. I tried walking away. I tried ignoring it. I tried giving people the benefit of the doubt.
But watching the same behaviors continue, and watching other people get caught in the middle of it, has made one thing very clear:
Silence does not stop it.
Ignoring it does not stop it.
Pretending it isn’t happening does not stop it.
The truth is not the problem.
The behavior is.
And until the people at the center of it acknowledge what they are doing and stop doing it, nothing is going to change.
The receipts exist.
The screenshots exist.
The timelines exist.
The truth exists.
People can continue ignoring it if they want to.
I won’t.
For a long time I stayed quiet because the mental and emotional toll was real.
What many people don’t understand is that this wasn’t just drama on a screen for me.
It affected me deeply.
It broke me in ways I never expected.
There were days I questioned myself. Days I wondered if walking away from everything would be easier than continuing to defend myself against lies, accusations, and narratives that never reflected the full truth.
I carried the weight of watching people believe things about me that simply weren’t true. I carried the weight of seeing my name discussed in private conversations, group chats, posts, and rumors while feeling powerless to stop it. I carried the weight of watching people I cared about get pulled into situations they never should have been involved in.
The constant attacks, the assumptions, the judgment, the exclusion, and the endless attempts to paint me as something I’m not took a serious toll on my mental and emotional well-being.
There were times I felt defeated.
There were times I felt completely broken.
There were times I wanted to disappear from this community altogether because I couldn’t understand why so many people were willing to ignore facts while embracing false narratives.
But what hurts even more than what was done to me is watching the same behaviors continue and seeing other people affected by them too.
No one should feel pressured to choose sides.
No one should feel afraid to participate, create, interact, or be friends with someone because of what others might think.
No one should become collateral damage because of personal grudges, gossip, or ongoing attempts to control narratives.
That is why I continue to speak.
Not because I enjoy conflict.
Not because I enjoy defending myself.
Not because I enjoy revisiting any of this.
I speak because I know what it feels like to be on the receiving end of it, and I refuse to stay silent while it continues affecting other people.
