12/28/2021
The Uniform / Apron debates! Back in olden days the servers all kinda wore whatever they wanted, overalls, ironic housedresses, punk rock band t-shirts etc.
As the restaurant got bigger I felt like we needed something for customers to better Identify who the heck they were supposed to ask for a glass of water so we added aprons. Kristen Dupuis was the John Paul Gaultier of the Salvation runway. She made us animal prints, stripes, ones with cool Pom poms, rickrack or other pillow notions- fantastic colors & details- great right?
Cut to 4:17, when everyone finally arrived for their 4pm shift and it was on. “No I planned on the zebra tonight, the leopard is too brown”, “well Peter is working tonight so he gets the stripes but I can’t wear checks with my flannel!”
Meanwhile me standing at the door alone greeting customers and desperate for help.
So I tried another tack, I would pay Kristen to make you your own personal, custom apron that you could take home, maybe even wash once a season? Cut to 4:18- does anyone have an extra apron in their car? I think I left mine on the dance floor of Pink and they don’t open til 8pm.
It’s the simple things that I spent too much energy on. Imposing a uniform was such a sell out move, like asking your bridesmaids to not only wear the chartreuse tulle dress that you picked out but to have to pay for it too.
Some nights I would threaten uniforms and make up the worst sounding one to get my point across to shut up, grab an apron and start taking orders. Oh really guys? Ok starting next week the uniform is bike shorts with padding, wool turtlenecks & saddle shoes with soccer socks.
This didn’t help at all, they would all just want to start playing the game with me. “Ooooh! How about gauchos & matching vests? Or those tuxedo t-shirts that look Like your wearing a tuxedo but it’s just a screen print!”
A few years back I gingerly broached the subject again. ”Guys it’s getting really hard for customers to know who works here so without going too overboard and while trying to remain gender neutral starting next week I want you to all wear gingham-Any color-could be shorts, shirt, cute dress, apron etc. just we need something to identify us easier when it’s super busy and we are all
Flying around.
I need a novel to explain all the different ways they found to get around that-it lasted about 72 hours and the final straw was when I said to one gal, after exhaustively being the gingham police on top Of everything else “Hey, where’s your gingham?”
She showed me her earrings that were about a 1/2” round plastic black & white gingham disc.
I hit the Sauvignon Blanc hard that night.
Located in Newport, Rhode Island, Salvation Café offers an innovative menu with craft beers on tap and exotic tiki-inspired cocktails. Salvation Café has private event space for celebrations such as bridal showers, baby showers, rehearsal dinners and post-wedding brunches.