Ashes And Influence

05/25/2026

What’s the most underrated cigar in your rotation?

05/24/2026

There’s power in what I decline.
Ashes & Influence.

05/16/2026

Pull up a seat, light your favorite stick, and vibe with us.
On Ashes & Influence, the conversations burn slow, the perspectives hit bold, and the influence? Undeniable.
Tune in. Stay lit. 💋

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05/07/2026

🚨 Episode 19 is streaming NOW 🚨

🔥 Hot Flashes & Hot Takes: The Menopause Chronicles just dropped and whew… we said what needed to be said. From hormones and hot flashes to s*x, low desire, relationships, and real life changes, this conversation is honest, funny, and unapologetically real.

Featuring Rhonda and Red with special guest appearance by CoCo Flame 🎙️

Press play NOW.

In this episode of Ashes & Influence, we get real about Menopause, the physical changes, emotional shifts, and how it impacts relationships, s*x, and self aw...

05/05/2026

We don’t say it enough, so we said it here… we love Black men, fully and intentionally.

05/04/2026

Our guest panelist Red came in and didn’t waste a minute… straight gems, no filler.

05/04/2026

No desire doesn’t mean something’s wrong… it means something changed.

05/02/2026

Where there’s smoke… there’s a story worth telling.
Tap in to Ashes & Influence, the podcast where Black women shape the culture, set the mood, and leave a mark long after the ash falls. 🔥💨

04/30/2026

I honor what aligns, not what appears...
Discernment is the luxury.

04/27/2026

Let’s talk about it… the hot flashes, the mood swings, the “don’t touch me unless I ask” energy 👀

I’m looking for bold, unfiltered women to join my next Ashes & Influence panel on Menopause.

Not clinical. Not boring. REAL.

📅 Sunday, May 3 | 2PM EST
🎙️ Virtual

If you’ve lived it, are in it, or got something to say, this is your moment.

Comment or hit my inbox.

04/22/2026

Big shout out to my newest top fans! 💎 Hektek Visuals

Drop a comment to welcome them to our community,